Helping couples begin well
Why choose Union & Story?
Your story deserves more than a generic ceremony. We’ve heard of countless couples with one common point of disappointment with their wedding officiant: The officiant didn’t know what they wanted. At Union & Story, we create a wedding ceremony JUST FOR YOU!
Building Trust in the Process
Listen
We start by listening to your story, your values, and what matters most to you.
Craft
On your wedding day, you can be fully present, knowing every detail has been carefully prepared.
Celebrate
Together we'll craft a ceremony that's thoughtful, personal, and uniquely yours.
Your Union & Your Story
Your Unique Ceremony
Your wedding ceremony is more than the beginning of your celebration—it's the beginning of your marriage.
At Union & Story, we work with each couple to create a ceremony that reflects your relationship, your values, and the life you're building together. Whether you're planning a faith-based, spiritual, or non-religious ceremony, we'll guide you through the process from your first conversation through your wedding day.
What's Included
Two virtual planning meetings
A personalized story interview
A custom-written ceremony
Collaboration with your planner, coordinator, or venue as needed
A detailed ceremony outline for your planning team
Professional officiating on your wedding day
Completion and filing guidance for your marriage license (where applicable)
Ceremony Styles
Christian
Spiritual
Non-religious
Customized to your preferences
Every ceremony is written specifically for you—never pulled from a template or delivered word-for-word from another wedding.
Our goal is simple, to create a ceremony that is unmistakably like your story.
*Securing Your Spot
When you purchase this service, you will be charged a downpayment of $150 to secure your ceremony date. If for any reason (prior conflict, distance, etc) we cannot accommodate your wedding, your downpayment will be returned in full. Final payment is due upon receiving your custom ceremony outline.
You said yes to officiating a wedding… now what?
If you’re feeling:
“I don’t know what I’m supposed to say”
“I don’t want to mess this up”
“I just need something that works”
You’re not alone.
This kit walks you through the entire process—and helps you create a ceremony that actually feels personal, natural, and meaningful.
Works for:
• Christian ceremonies
• Spiritual ceremonies
• Fully non-religious ceremonies
🎯 What This Does
This isn’t just a script.
It’s a simple system that helps you:
Build a ceremony step-by-step
Know exactly what to say (and when)
Feel confident standing in front of everyone
Deliver something that actually sounds good out loud
📦 What’s Included
💍 Wedding Ceremony Builder System
Step-by-step workflow using ChatGPT
Turns your couple’s info into a full ceremony
No writing experience required
Automatically adapts to Christian, Spiritual, or Secular ceremonies (no need to adjust manually)
📋 Ceremony Outline (Planner-Ready)
Clear order of events
Who speaks and when
Helps everyone stay on track
🎤 Officiant Script (Done for You)
Natural, conversational tone
Easy to read and deliver
Not stiff or awkward
📄 1-Page Quick Guide
Exactly what to do (step-by-step)
What to expect
How to prepare
👤 Who This Is For
Perfect if:
You’re officiating a wedding for a friend or family member
You’ve never done this before
You want something personal—but don’t know where to start
You need a ceremony that's either Christian, secular, or somewhere in-between.
⚖️ Before You Begin
In many states, friends or family can officiate weddings—but requirements vary.
Check your state’s requirements here:
👉 Who Can Officiate a Wedding by State
⚠️ What This Is Not
Not a long, boring course
Not a generic template
Not something you have to “figure out”
Not locked in to one system of beliefs
This is:
Simple. Guided. Done with you.
💬 What Makes This Different
Most officiant guides give you:
A script
And wish you luck
This gives you:
A process
A structure
And something you can actually follow
💡 How It Works
Fill out a simple worksheet
Drop your info into the system
Generate your ceremony
Deliver it with confidence
🙌 Final Thought
You already said yes.
Now let’s make sure you feel ready.
We can help each of you write your own vows, ensuring that they are of similar length and tone while sticking to the intended meaning of what it is to vow something to your partner. Coaching includes crafting, ordering, and practice delivery if desired.
*If you purchased our ceremony services, traditional and/or personal vows that you write would already be included.
Working with us
Courtney and Doug Rominger each has extensive experience listening to people’s dreams, officiating weddings, and walking couples through the biggest decision of their lives. Would you like to work with one or both of us?
You are in good hands!
